Why do girls watch porn?

All the girls do it.

You type the word “porn” in a Google search box, go to the site, turn off the sound on your computer, and watch with healthy curiosity what they do there. And you do it in pleasant solitude. Admit it, was that? If not, then you are in the minority. A study carried out by Cosmo in several countries in Europe and the United States found that 96% of participants in the study occasionally wander on porn sites in search of new sensations. And 67% do it regularly, at least once a month.

We have not seen anything strange in watching “strawberry” for a couple with our boyfriend. But the fact that we started watching pornsolely for my own pleasure, surprised the specialists. True, not all. “The idea that porn is only for men and that women just can’t like it is devoid of common sense,” says sex education PhD Logan Leukoff. “Girls are just as visual as men.”

We would venture to suggest that many of us have played pranks before, we just did not tell anyone about it. Well, do not discuss the release of the new season of some “Lustful Maids” with your girlfriends? It’s just between you and the maids, But times have changed. And the occupation, which was previously considered shameful, has become not so much a topic for conversation at a social event, but no longer a reason to wonder if everything is all right with you.

Legalization of porn

Pornography exists and has always existed, regardless of our attitude towards it. Obscene pictures spread back in ancient Rome. But girls were not at all interested in this topic since the time of Emperor Caligula. Everything has changed literally over the past few years. Thanks to the Internet, great and terrible. Previously, cassettes with “strawberry” were sold only on the outskirts of book markets with gloomy uncles. It was embarrassing even for young people to appear there, especially “from good families”. And that the girl decided to buy herself something from the “XXX” category, even for educational purposes, was out of the question.

“For years, pornography has only been sold under the counter. But now, with just two clicks, you can satisfy your curiosity without letting anyone know, ”says another sex education expert, Jamie Waxman, author of Getting Off: A Woman’s Guide to Masturbation. The experts did not agree on whether this is good or bad. On the one hand, it seems to be good: all those who are not too lucky in their personal lives got the opportunity to realize their erotic dreams . On the other hand, why strain and look for a partner if you can get a discharge right at the laptop screen?

Naturally, we could no longer pretend that we were not at all interested in even looking “at all this muck,” and began to act. “Many women are interested in this, talk about it, discuss it and one day they discover that they do not mind seeing everything with their own eyes,” comments Logan Levkoff.

Privacy isn’t the only advantage of the Internet. We got the opportunity to discuss the topic of porn with other people without fear of being considered perverts or judged. “There are online forums where women share their thoughts and recommendations about what they see. They advise what to see, says Waxman. – These forums help to relieve the feeling of awkwardness. As soon as we feel like part of a group doing the same thing as we are, we feel much more confident. “

Ladies Night

Even if your girlfriends are open-minded, you are unlikely to openly announce your new hobby. Most likely, you will just start your own research. And this is almost a sure road to disappointment.

According to our observations, 92% of aspiring porn fans watch free videos online. But most of these sites specialize mainly in the gonzo genre, in which a semi-professional director is both a cameraman and a leading actor.
In such films, there is no sensuality, mainly lust or violence, which, of course, girls do not like. A mechanical sex displayhow a series of reciprocating movements in the fifth minute makes you yawn with boredom. And that is not all. Since most porn sites are aimed at heterosexual men, then all the actors in such videos are far from handsome. But women are just sensual beauties with flawless bodies. It turns out that the main character does not evoke any feelings in the spectator, and the heroine annoys with the length of her legs and Brazilian hair removal.

Erica Last, author of Good Porn: A Woman’s Guide, warns that if you get stuck on free sites, you will very soon think that porn is boring, vulgar, and disgusting. “A lot of women are turned away from pornography because they believe that porn is always focused on male fantasy,” continues Jamie Waxman. She recommends checking out hotmoviesforther.com and fleshbot.com, two sites that host content specifically for women. We dropped by. Mmm … Tempting.

And finally, no matter how beautiful and passionate porn is, remember: it should never be superior to live sex in your own bedroom. Yes, there is a place for incidents, awkward moments and even “industrial injuries”, but it feels like no other work of actors / directors / screenwriters / cameramen and other workers in this responsible sphere of work can compare with it.