Diary of memory

If your partner is taller than you, standing positions can be crossed out immediately. Except for one. Ask him to push you against the wall, lifting your hips slightly, like he’s Ryan Gosling. It is not necessary to test a guy for strength, but for the sake of a beautiful moment “like in a movie” – it is really worth it.

A builder’s dream

Stop using a mountain of pillows just to make the doggie-style a little more comfortable. After all, there is a headboard for this. Just bend over and let him grab you by the legs like you’re a construction car. It doesn’t sound very sexy, but in fact everyone will be satisfied.

At eye level

Don’t forget to use furniture. But only the one that is kaaa just at the level of his penis. Dining and bar stools, dressers, sinks or even a washing machine will do. Especially the last one. For obvious reasons.

Through hardships to the stars

In case you are taller, you should stock up on something solid. Of course, we are talking about an orthopedic pillow. Lie with your back on her, wrapping your long legs around your partner. He can only grab you by the hips and – forward to the dream.

Distant route 69

When you lie on your side, it doesn’t matter who is taller. Turn to face each other, slightly moving away, and feel free to start caressing. Your feet, hands and moans will guide you down Route 69 straight to your destination.

All the girls do it.

You type the word “porn” in a Google search box, go to the site, turn off the sound on your computer, and watch with healthy curiosity what they do there. And you do it in pleasant solitude. Admit it, was that? If not, then you are in the minority. A study carried out by Cosmo in several countries in Europe and the United States found that 96% of participants in the study occasionally wander on porn sites in search of new sensations. And 67% do it regularly, at least once a month.

We have not seen anything strange in watching “strawberry” for a couple with our boyfriend. But the fact that we started watching pornsolely for my own pleasure, surprised the specialists. True, not all. “The idea that porn is only for men and that women just can’t like it is devoid of common sense,” says sex education PhD Logan Leukoff. “Girls are just as visual as men.”

We would venture to suggest that many of us have played pranks before, we just did not tell anyone about it. Well, do not discuss the release of the new season of some “Lustful Maids” with your girlfriends? It’s just between you and the maids, But times have changed. And the occupation, which was previously considered shameful, has become not so much a topic for conversation at a social event, but no longer a reason to wonder if everything is all right with you.

Legalization of porn

Pornography exists and has always existed, regardless of our attitude towards it. Obscene pictures spread back in ancient Rome. But girls were not at all interested in this topic since the time of Emperor Caligula. Everything has changed literally over the past few years. Thanks to the Internet, great and terrible. Previously, cassettes with “strawberry” were sold only on the outskirts of book markets with gloomy uncles. It was embarrassing even for young people to appear there, especially “from good families”. And that the girl decided to buy herself something from the “XXX” category, even for educational purposes, was out of the question.

“For years, pornography has only been sold under the counter. But now, with just two clicks, you can satisfy your curiosity without letting anyone know, ”says another sex education expert, Jamie Waxman, author of Getting Off: A Woman’s Guide to Masturbation. The experts did not agree on whether this is good or bad. On the one hand, it seems to be good: all those who are not too lucky in their personal lives got the opportunity to realize their erotic dreams . On the other hand, why strain and look for a partner if you can get a discharge right at the laptop screen?

Naturally, we could no longer pretend that we were not at all interested in even looking “at all this muck,” and began to act. “Many women are interested in this, talk about it, discuss it and one day they discover that they do not mind seeing everything with their own eyes,” comments Logan Levkoff.

Privacy isn’t the only advantage of the Internet. We got the opportunity to discuss the topic of porn with other people without fear of being considered perverts or judged. “There are online forums where women share their thoughts and recommendations about what they see. They advise what to see, says Waxman. – These forums help to relieve the feeling of awkwardness. As soon as we feel like part of a group doing the same thing as we are, we feel much more confident. “

Ladies Night

Even if your girlfriends are open-minded, you are unlikely to openly announce your new hobby. Most likely, you will just start your own research. And this is almost a sure road to disappointment.

According to our observations, 92% of aspiring porn fans watch free videos online. But most of these sites specialize mainly in the gonzo genre, in which a semi-professional director is both a cameraman and a leading actor.
In such films, there is no sensuality, mainly lust or violence, which, of course, girls do not like. A mechanical sex displayhow a series of reciprocating movements in the fifth minute makes you yawn with boredom. And that is not all. Since most porn sites are aimed at heterosexual men, then all the actors in such videos are far from handsome. But women are just sensual beauties with flawless bodies. It turns out that the main character does not evoke any feelings in the spectator, and the heroine annoys with the length of her legs and Brazilian hair removal.

Erica Last, author of Good Porn: A Woman’s Guide, warns that if you get stuck on free sites, you will very soon think that porn is boring, vulgar, and disgusting. “A lot of women are turned away from pornography because they believe that porn is always focused on male fantasy,” continues Jamie Waxman. She recommends checking out hotmoviesforther.com and fleshbot.com, two sites that host content specifically for women. We dropped by. Mmm … Tempting.

And finally, no matter how beautiful and passionate porn is, remember: it should never be superior to live sex in your own bedroom. Yes, there is a place for incidents, awkward moments and even “industrial injuries”, but it feels like no other work of actors / directors / screenwriters / cameramen and other workers in this responsible sphere of work can compare with it.

Doors are closing

Maria is experiencing personal disaster. She accidentally ruined a quivering romance. She did not just ruin the romantic atmosphere with a stupid phrase or an unmotivated act, but literally went nuts.

Everything began more than fine: meeting at a mutual friend’s birthday party, talking about art, winking in Skype, tapping in ICQ, sweet chatter about this and that, three gorgeous dates. Ballet, zoo, skating rink are classics of the genre, after such events they go down the aisle in Hollywood films. Or they go to Las Vegas and win a million dollars. And Masha, who buzzed all my ears with stories about her beautiful Tolik, prepared to transfer the relationship to a horizontal plane. The fourth date was supposed to be decisive — Tolik had long suggested that we go to him to admire his aquarium fish.

Everything was thought out to the smallest detail: light makeup, a new dress – smart, but not too elegant, a new set of lingerie from Agent Provocateur, beige ballet flats … It seems that she even studied the Kama Sutra once again. In short, I came to Tolik fully armed. The disaster happened in the morning. No, Tolik really had excellent aquarium fish, and in sex he showed himself five points. But on the eve, he decided to surprise Masha with culinary delights. Octopuses and squids in the salad and yesterday seemed slippery to her, and in the morning – according to the law of meanness – the sea bastards showed their true colors! And, waking up at 6 am in someone else’s apartment, Masha could think of only one thing: where is the damn toilet?

This is not a story for glossy magazines … Instead of running away at midnight, leaving behind a light veil of “Chanel No. 5”, Masha barricaded herself in the bathroom and for an hour pretended to brush her teeth, read the press, swim a hundred meters in bathroom … Refusing a cup of coffee and trying not to look her lover in the eyes, Masha fled, referring to the visit of her aunt from Rostov. Behind Masha there was a fleur of air freshener. You find it funny, but your friend, by the way, has not only personal life, but also self-esteem – down the drain. She will not answer Tolikov’s call for any price and will not write to him herself. As if she did not go to the monastery, by God!

Would you even drink some tea?

It is only in the movies that the heroine goes into the kitchen in the morning in a man’s shirt and, looking at the undisguised rear of her lover, who is in what her mother gave birth, makes coffee, casually throws: “Me with cream!” In reality, girls are more nervous after the first night together than before the final exams.

The merciless morning light deprives us of our former charm — the sinking is crumbling, the hair is crumpled, cellulite, or the tummy, or some other imperfections of the female body are visible in the rays of the rising sun. And it’s good if everything happened at your home and you can sneak into the bathroom with your mouse and start your morning marafet. And if, in a fit of disco mood, you were brought home to him at night? Neither brushing your teeth, nor styling your hair … And in general it is not clear whether it is possible to go to the bathroom without permission, if the owner of the house is still asleep. And now the passionate goddess of the night begins to feel embarrassed, to put on the bra that was found under the bed in a hurry, come up with a thousand reasons to quickly go home … In general, she runs!

One good friend of mine, in order not to spoil the impression of the wonderful “yesterday”, adheres to a strict rule – not to stay until morning. And after a passionate night he goes home to sleep. And he does not let the gentlemen into his house, arguing that they are “not familiar enough”. She is a fernme fatale, but has never had a serious long-term relationship. But it is the first morning spent together that is the defining moment in the further fate of the couple. The partner’s behavior in the light is subjected to a more sensitive analysis than at night: what he says, what he jokes about, how he eats … And the main thing is whether he continues to show signs of attention. And he looks at you and tries to figure out if it’s worth continuing, so it’s important to make this morning good.

So … … you woke up with you

Be a welcoming hostess, but without unnecessary body movements. Don’t rush around trying to find a second pair of slippers for him or make a three-course breakfast. Even if you are just a girl from a sleeping area, and he is the crown prince, do not complex about the shortcomings of your home. So what if your renovation is not finished, through the hole in the ceiling you can see the neighbors from above, and on the table there is a mess left from the day before last the defense of the diploma! You live as you see fit! By the way, a man is as complex as you. Even if he pretends to be asleep, in fact, he probably remembers whether he wore enough stylish panties yesterday. He worries if you will be disappointed when you see his thin, unpumped hands in the light of day. He doesn’t know how you feel about the fact that he has Mario brothers tattooed on his left buttock. Take him for who he is even if you spot a hole in his toe. It happens to everyone! And there is no need to show who is the boss: “Don’t walk on the carpet, I vacuumed it yesterday!”, “Don’t eat cutlets, it’s for lunch!”, “Don’t iron the cat, remember!” Because if at night you were a passionate Odalisque, and in the morning, in a protocol voice, announced from the bathroom that he forgot to close the tube of paste, the whole erotic impression is gone. Men are shy creatures, especially in foreign territory. And if you let him feel at home, you can learn the habits of this beast in a short time. Poured water on the bathroom floor? Chewing morning toast like an African baboon? Evil joking over grandfather’s photo? Criticizing your way of brewing coffee? Draw your own conclusions! And by the way, just in case, get a spare toothbrush. who is the boss in the house: “Don’t walk on the carpet, I vacuumed it yesterday!”, “Don’t eat cutlets, this is for lunch!”, “Don’t stroke the cat, remember!” Because if at night you were a passionate Odalisque, and in the morning, in a protocol voice, announced from the bathroom that he forgot to close the tube of paste, the whole erotic impression is gone. Men are shy creatures, especially in foreign territory. And if you let him feel at home, you can learn the habits of this beast in a short time. Poured water on the bathroom floor? Chewing morning toast like an African baboon? Evil joking over grandfather’s photo? Criticizing your way of brewing coffee? Draw your own conclusions! And by the way, just in case, get a spare toothbrush. who is the boss in the house: “Don’t walk on the carpet, I vacuumed it yesterday!”, “Don’t eat cutlets, this is for lunch!”, “Don’t stroke the cat, remember!” Because if at night you were a passionate Odalisque, and in the morning, in a protocol voice, announced from the bathroom that he forgot to close the tube of paste, the whole erotic impression is gone. Men are shy creatures, especially in foreign territory. And if you let him feel at home, you can learn the habits of this beast in a short time. Poured water on the bathroom floor? Chewing morning toast like an African baboon? Evil joking over grandfather’s photo? Criticizing your way of brewing coffee? Draw your own conclusions! And by the way, just in case, get a spare toothbrush. Because if at night you were a passionate Odalisque, and in the morning, in a protocol voice, announced from the bathroom that he forgot to close the tube of paste, the whole erotic impression is gone. Men are shy creatures, especially in foreign territory. And if you let him feel at home, you can learn the habits of this beast in a short time. Poured water on the bathroom floor? Chewing morning toast like an African baboon? Evil joking over grandfather’s photo? Criticizing your way of brewing coffee? Draw your own conclusions! And by the way, just in case, get a spare toothbrush. Because if at night you were a passionate Odalisque, and in the morning, in a protocol voice, announced from the bathroom that he forgot to close the tube of paste, the whole erotic impression is gone. Men are shy creatures, especially in foreign territory. And if you let him feel at home, you can learn the habits of this beast in a short time. Poured water on the bathroom floor? Chewing morning toast like an African baboon? Evil joking over grandfather’s photo? Criticizing your way of brewing coffee? Draw your own conclusions! And by the way, just in case, get a spare toothbrush. you will be able to study the habits of this beast in a short time. Poured water on the bathroom floor? Chewing morning toast like an African baboon? Evil joking over grandfather’s photo? Criticizing your way of brewing coffee? Draw your own conclusions! And by the way, just in case, get a spare toothbrush. then you can study the habits of this beast in a short time. Poured water on the bathroom floor? Chewing morning toast like an African baboon? Evil joking over grandfather’s photo? Criticizing your way of brewing coffee? Draw your own conclusions! And by the way, just in case, get a spare toothbrush.

… you woke up with him

Now you know how he lives. Writing obscene words with your finger on a dusty dresser? Grows violets? Sorts cutlery, books and even remnants by color and size? Hang a full-length photo of your beloved on the walls? Draw your own conclusions!

In someone else’s apartment you will not be able to take a bath like a master, using your own towel, hairdryer and toothbrush, put on cozy – homemade and make yourself coffee. It’s not at all clear if he has coffee? But the main thing that you shouldn’t do is take the initiative into your own hands. After all, you are just a guest at his castle, so let him make your morning unforgettable.

Let him knock on the bathroom every two minutes, asking if something is needed, let him make coffee, make breakfast, babysit you as the owner of the house. Only without criticism. Show that you enjoy his troubles, even if there is no body milk in the bathroom and the sprat in the tomato is burnt. In fact, any man does not mind that in the morning his girlfriend went into the kitchen in his shirt and said: “Me with cream!” Better yet: “Let’s repeat!”

… you woke up with friends

It also happens that outbursts of passion entwine your bodies at someone’s dacha or even at a resort during a corporate team building. And now, in the morning, all your friends have witnessed your fall. Well, the main thing is to pretend that … everything is going according to plan. Don’t jump away from your new lover as if you were a victim of sexual harassment! You are an independent person and you decide for yourself where and with whom to indulge in debauchery. Even if after a joint trip you never see each other again, do not deny everything that happened. Smile and everyone will envy. In general, the first morning together is almost like the New Year: how you meet it, so your relationship will develop. The future husband of one of my friends, for example, after a passionate night in her apartment, was the first to go into the kitchen and, putting on the kettle, said: “Listen,

You probably know that kissing is not only pleasant, but also very useful. Now imagine that for many couples in love, kissing can be even more exciting than sex – especially if you know some tricks that turn lip touching into an incredibly erotic process.

According to many popular books on psychology, men and women are creatures from different planets, having different, often opposite opinions on everything. Nevertheless, there are issues on which we are unanimous – for example, we adore kissing, but often do not pay enough attention to this process, routinely touching each other with our lips in goodbye or in the process of foreplay. How to make a kiss excite, give goosebumps and excite sexual fantasies, know the girls and guys who shared their secrets with you.

The mirror of one’s heart

“When a girl and I kiss, I like to open my eyes, but only for a second or two. It reminds me that everything is happening in reality, and not dreaming to me. Just don’t blink too often, girls – the guy might think that you are not focused enough on him, ”- Bruno, 23.

Hands are not for boredom

“Yes, I know that in this case, all the attention is on the lips, but I think that the hands and the way you use them play an important role in the kiss. This shows that the guy cares not only about the mechanical side of the process, what he thinks about me and wants me to be closer. He can take my face in his palms, run his hands along my spine, squeeze me tightly and pull me away a little – in general, do it the way it is often shown in romantic melodramas. Looks a little sugary, but it works just flawlessly.” – Sarah, 31.

Leave talking

“I’m a fan of good conversation and a good kiss, but not at the same time. I think the perfect kiss should be long-lasting and effortless, so let’s put the words aside. ”- Becky, 21.

Calm, only calm

“When it comes to kissing a new partner, many of us get very nervous, which instantly negates the pleasure, but where there is stress, there is no place for a good kiss. Just relax and have fun – if there are feelings between you, then the technique will appear at the level of intuition. “- Sherrill Kirschenbaum, author of Science of the Kiss.

Corporate handwriting

“My boyfriend is very fond of my ‘signature’ kiss, when I quickly kiss him three times on the cheek – smack, smack, smack. I can do this when I talk to him on the phone, when we sit in different corners of the room or when he is driving – this is our secret code. ”- Rachel, 26.

Fresh breath makes understanding easier

“When you’re going on a date and assume you’ll be kissing, don’t forget chewing gum or mints — there’s nothing worse than feeling someone’s stale breath.” – Nate, 24

Add some passion

“One guy just kissed me and then gently pulled a strand of hair from his face – it was very nice. I feel about the same when stroking my cheek – a subtle movement can be remembered for a long time. ”- Lindsay, 21.

With sense, with feeling …

“In marriage, kissing sooner or later fades into the background. My husband and I do not kiss as often as it used to be, but we still put love and tenderness into our every kiss ”, – Christina, 27 years old.

Show teeth

“Once my boyfriend and I were kissing and he gently, barely perceptibly bit my lower lip. It was very unexpected and very sexy – I felt like I was in a cool music video. ”- Alison, 21.

Don’t close your mouth

“Men love deep, open kisses, while girls often complain that the guy doesn’t know how to keep his mouth shut. The fact is that this is not just his whim, but an evolutionarily determined feature: male saliva contains a small amount of the sex hormone testosterone, which, during a wet, deep kiss, enters the woman’s body. If a man kisses the same partner for a week, a month or longer, her body becomes very susceptible to testosterone and, perhaps, precisely because of these micro doses of the hormone, a woman becomes more receptive to sex in general and to a particular partner in particular, ” Cheryl Kirshenbaum, author of The Science of the Kiss.

Changing course

“It’s good when a guy starts a kiss with slow and gentle touches of his lips, but if he continues in the same spirit all the time, it becomes very boring. In a kiss there must be pressure, strength and a share of aggression in order to “spark the flame” – Ashley, 24 years old.